Is it not true that sometimes, the best way to find something we are looking for is to look for something else instead? Mainly because When our attention is too closely fixed on one item, we lose the ability to see the whole of our situation from a distance!!! ...I guess sometimes standing back seems inappropriate...But it's only when we do, that we realise how much more clearly we could have been seeing things.

ummmm...I seem to have brilliant insights....only if I would stop trying quite so hard to control everything!!!